Hi Folkes
I am relatively upbeat this week.
I hate not being able to tell you much about what is going on but things are moving forward at the usual
slow pace when it comes to accountability.
I am now of the full opinion that the County Council would gain some benefit from social media.
The closed brick wall mentality only serves to send people insane.
In the usual day to day activities of the average person when you ask a question it gets answered within at least a week and when you raise a concern it gets resolved to a satisfactory conclusion.
We live in a world of compensation culture where people will claim for anything, This causes damage in its
self.
In the past I have slipped on ice in freezers whilst at work and been in a couple of car accidents.
Further to this I have White finger caused by excessive power tool use.
Have I claimed damages from people no and the reason for this is yes in the short term I suffered some bruising and a stiff neck and the white finger causes a twinge every now and again in winter.
None of my injuries or accidents have ever affected my life full time and were got over or just expected by
my age.
I have never had a loan other than a mortgage so I do not want PPI compensation nor do I wish to persue
my bank for bank charges that I was fully aware of.
So back to the damage that this compensation culture creates.
The big problem to this is when an establishment knows it has failed or carried out an injustice or being negligent it will do whatever it can via its solicitors and PR folk to bury the problem in delays or in some
cases lie to cover its own failure or shift blame.
All of this is undertaken to avoid potential financial damage.
When I fist complained about the quality of care afforded to my grandfather and then the subsequent problems with how the county council undertook its adult protection investigations and there actions The personal damage to myself was very impacting but would have been short term.
When explanations and ignorance and lies are forthcoming then this causes further damage.
The process of individuals in charge going via the PR and Solicitor route from day 1 is dangerous.
Further to this when organizations persistently ignore the complainant they do further damage to that individual and the organization if it come into the public domain.
The complainant becomes the further victim to what they have witnessed as the whole complaint procedure fails.
Nothing is learned and nothing can change.
The full extend of my initial complaint and the way it was handled is coming to light.
The full extent of the failure regarding my grandfather is also coming to light.
As I have said before the stress and sheer despair initially and over the past few years has caused my own
heath to suffer badly and my emotions have gone between suicidal thoughts and heavy mood swings including anger, mistrust in the very organizations that should be trustworthy.
I used to think that depression was a sudo illness to take time of work.
I have learned that depression is far more damaging than I ever could have thought.
You do not sleep and end up anxious of situations, you end up blaming yourself for others actions and failings.
You question your own love for the people concerned and what care you provided.
You end up not wanting to leave the safety of your own home and dread what the hell is going to happen next.
You panic about what if your loved one has to be admitted to hospital and what care they are to receive
You panic that your care and support has been taken away from your loved one and placed in the hands of an organization that you witness are not transparrent and people that you do not trust.
The worst part is the mistrust in others and the extent that you feel alone even with the support of your family.
Even when being told how well you have done something and how well you have cared yourself it makes no difference to how you feel.
As an electrician I love my vocation however I simply cannot face people or trust people to there word and
feel intimidated by any situation.
I have lost my ability to trust my own safety and that of others therefore I can not place innocent individuals
at risk.
I get angry and the situation and ignorance is way beyond any humans flash point but I will not be drawn into what these organizations would like you to do
I have shared these personal feelings with you in the hope that it helps me to regain my own confidence.
The past 2 years have been full of ups and downs however the Local Goverment Ombudsman has reopened there investigation and reports that have had to be dragged out of the organization are only serving to uphold my concerns.
I am still fully committed to this as the situation has become my life's work 24 hours a day over these past years.
The question is should I be compensated ? Should these people apologize
I think so
Steve
I am relatively upbeat this week.
I hate not being able to tell you much about what is going on but things are moving forward at the usual
slow pace when it comes to accountability.
I am now of the full opinion that the County Council would gain some benefit from social media.
The closed brick wall mentality only serves to send people insane.
In the usual day to day activities of the average person when you ask a question it gets answered within at least a week and when you raise a concern it gets resolved to a satisfactory conclusion.
We live in a world of compensation culture where people will claim for anything, This causes damage in its
self.
In the past I have slipped on ice in freezers whilst at work and been in a couple of car accidents.
Further to this I have White finger caused by excessive power tool use.
Have I claimed damages from people no and the reason for this is yes in the short term I suffered some bruising and a stiff neck and the white finger causes a twinge every now and again in winter.
None of my injuries or accidents have ever affected my life full time and were got over or just expected by
my age.
I have never had a loan other than a mortgage so I do not want PPI compensation nor do I wish to persue
my bank for bank charges that I was fully aware of.
So back to the damage that this compensation culture creates.
The big problem to this is when an establishment knows it has failed or carried out an injustice or being negligent it will do whatever it can via its solicitors and PR folk to bury the problem in delays or in some
cases lie to cover its own failure or shift blame.
All of this is undertaken to avoid potential financial damage.
When I fist complained about the quality of care afforded to my grandfather and then the subsequent problems with how the county council undertook its adult protection investigations and there actions The personal damage to myself was very impacting but would have been short term.
When explanations and ignorance and lies are forthcoming then this causes further damage.
The process of individuals in charge going via the PR and Solicitor route from day 1 is dangerous.
Further to this when organizations persistently ignore the complainant they do further damage to that individual and the organization if it come into the public domain.
The complainant becomes the further victim to what they have witnessed as the whole complaint procedure fails.
Nothing is learned and nothing can change.
The full extend of my initial complaint and the way it was handled is coming to light.
The full extent of the failure regarding my grandfather is also coming to light.
As I have said before the stress and sheer despair initially and over the past few years has caused my own
heath to suffer badly and my emotions have gone between suicidal thoughts and heavy mood swings including anger, mistrust in the very organizations that should be trustworthy.
I used to think that depression was a sudo illness to take time of work.
I have learned that depression is far more damaging than I ever could have thought.
You do not sleep and end up anxious of situations, you end up blaming yourself for others actions and failings.
You question your own love for the people concerned and what care you provided.
You end up not wanting to leave the safety of your own home and dread what the hell is going to happen next.
You panic about what if your loved one has to be admitted to hospital and what care they are to receive
You panic that your care and support has been taken away from your loved one and placed in the hands of an organization that you witness are not transparrent and people that you do not trust.
The worst part is the mistrust in others and the extent that you feel alone even with the support of your family.
Even when being told how well you have done something and how well you have cared yourself it makes no difference to how you feel.
As an electrician I love my vocation however I simply cannot face people or trust people to there word and
feel intimidated by any situation.
I have lost my ability to trust my own safety and that of others therefore I can not place innocent individuals
at risk.
I get angry and the situation and ignorance is way beyond any humans flash point but I will not be drawn into what these organizations would like you to do
I have shared these personal feelings with you in the hope that it helps me to regain my own confidence.
The past 2 years have been full of ups and downs however the Local Goverment Ombudsman has reopened there investigation and reports that have had to be dragged out of the organization are only serving to uphold my concerns.
I am still fully committed to this as the situation has become my life's work 24 hours a day over these past years.
The question is should I be compensated ? Should these people apologize
I think so
Steve
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