Well here we go update time.
First and most important grandad is comfy and eating and drinking well,Unfortunatly the CT Scan results are not back yet so will be chasing these up tommorow.
We have just had to get him some new glasses as he had lost a lens and sat on them.
We finally had a reply from my Subject Access Request to Staffordshire police regarding conversations between themselves and Staffordshire county council.
Apparently there is no record in relation to myself and that if any information did exist it could cause the information systems at Staffordshire police to become unstable if a printout was undertaken PMSL.
I have raised this issue with the Staffordshire Police Commisioner who has very quickly responded that he has requested that Newcastle Under Lyme Police make a satisfactory statement to my request.
And where it comes to Mrs Andrea Trubshaw the Staffordshire County Council have still not advised as to investigation of this individuals actions.
I have today however received a telephone call from my granddads new Social Worker I believe that this social worker holds my grandfathers best wishes and best interests.
We talked for some time about some of my recent experiences regarding granddads care and she stated that she would always act in his best interests, I cracked a joke that she would probably be the first one to do this.
I do not feel that I will ever trust any Social Worker fully but this has to be stated during the call she asked me how I felt and have I ever been able to talk to anyone else regarding my own time caring for grandad, This may seem a basic question but it hit me like a ton of bricks.
My emotions welled up to say the least, No other social worker has ever shown me compassion and understanding, to watch and live the degrading onset of dementia in someone you love and knowing that things do not get better with cancer and old age.
To watch him losing his will and determination and his internal confusion after fighting so long to hold his memory.
For myself to be neglected and abused by these Social Workers, To just have one that showed she cared it just ripped so deep into my heart maybe some social workers aint so bad.
It took many months to talk to anyone about how things were and how I was coping and then it was only after a crisis point. and even then it was not a social worker, it was one kind off duty police officer on a bridge in the middle of the night.
Social Workers need to look towards family integration not destruction, they are overstretched and overworked and some hold power complexes that invade common sense decision making.
There is only one way forward Blow the Whistle you cannot walk around hospitals ignoring treatment of our elderly.
When Vulnerable Adult investigations are raised look at the substance not what a past social worker with a chip on her shoulder wrote due to myself challenging simple respite I am not Violent or Abusive or A Thief but I require answers.
Love to you all
Stephen
Only time will tell.
First and most important grandad is comfy and eating and drinking well,Unfortunatly the CT Scan results are not back yet so will be chasing these up tommorow.
We have just had to get him some new glasses as he had lost a lens and sat on them.
We finally had a reply from my Subject Access Request to Staffordshire police regarding conversations between themselves and Staffordshire county council.
Apparently there is no record in relation to myself and that if any information did exist it could cause the information systems at Staffordshire police to become unstable if a printout was undertaken PMSL.
I have raised this issue with the Staffordshire Police Commisioner who has very quickly responded that he has requested that Newcastle Under Lyme Police make a satisfactory statement to my request.
And where it comes to Mrs Andrea Trubshaw the Staffordshire County Council have still not advised as to investigation of this individuals actions.
I have today however received a telephone call from my granddads new Social Worker I believe that this social worker holds my grandfathers best wishes and best interests.
We talked for some time about some of my recent experiences regarding granddads care and she stated that she would always act in his best interests, I cracked a joke that she would probably be the first one to do this.
I do not feel that I will ever trust any Social Worker fully but this has to be stated during the call she asked me how I felt and have I ever been able to talk to anyone else regarding my own time caring for grandad, This may seem a basic question but it hit me like a ton of bricks.
My emotions welled up to say the least, No other social worker has ever shown me compassion and understanding, to watch and live the degrading onset of dementia in someone you love and knowing that things do not get better with cancer and old age.
To watch him losing his will and determination and his internal confusion after fighting so long to hold his memory.
For myself to be neglected and abused by these Social Workers, To just have one that showed she cared it just ripped so deep into my heart maybe some social workers aint so bad.
It took many months to talk to anyone about how things were and how I was coping and then it was only after a crisis point. and even then it was not a social worker, it was one kind off duty police officer on a bridge in the middle of the night.
Social Workers need to look towards family integration not destruction, they are overstretched and overworked and some hold power complexes that invade common sense decision making.
There is only one way forward Blow the Whistle you cannot walk around hospitals ignoring treatment of our elderly.
When Vulnerable Adult investigations are raised look at the substance not what a past social worker with a chip on her shoulder wrote due to myself challenging simple respite I am not Violent or Abusive or A Thief but I require answers.
Love to you all
Stephen
Only time will tell.
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